The Funny Thing About Choices

I recently spoke with people who felt they were treated unfairly, paying homage to their love interests. This has resulted in a very sensitive subject of choice.

She felt it was unfair to ignore the offer of love and affection by continuing to go to the bar. Why is he so nasty to her when she offered him “unconditional” love and companionship? How could he completely ignore her love for him? how? how? how?

That's an interesting choice. As you can see, we make them every day. Each one of us. We sometimes make conscious decisions, but in most cases we fly a completely emotional fly with pants. And the truth is that most of us have the ability to choose other things if it doesn't work the way we wanted, just like we had the ability to choose one Not aware of the simple fact of having.

Furthermore, we are completely unfair when others make choices that do not match what we want to choose. The choice is usually us. My friend concentrates on how terrifying her love interest is without owning the fact that she chooses to continue to act this way and eventually choose to stay in the situation Was. And her “unconditional” love? Why after we were introduced to why. Why should she love him when he treated her badly? Why.

I knew it would be a problem for others. Judgment is more strict than our own. It's easier to lament the behavior of others than we own. We are equally guilty of the same act.

That is where I had the saying "Bitch Slap". My inspiration. I told someone very close to my heart that his life depends on his choice. I think I actually started irritating hell from him! Anyway, I had to realize the simple fact that I didn't approve his love decisions and choices at all. Please wake up. I really wanted him to choose me. The big difference is that I want this guy to be really happy. With anyone. Just happy because he deserves it. So I pray every day that he finds it in his life.

One day I realized that I also perpetuated my heart pain and pain, hoping that he would see my value as a woman I identified. I don't want him any more, but it admits at some point I was unfair to him.

So basically, if you disagree with a choice made by someone else, you need to identify exactly the “reason” for the discrepancy. Whether we are selfish, fair or unjust, our main responsibility is complete honesty.