Submission is the word “S” in the church. In the present age of equality, women's rights, and working women, many pastors avoid or skip immediately. Focuses on having to love men with his wife so that Christ loves the church.
There is still confusion as to how women in difficult marriages should be subjected. Some say that they should follow their husbands sparingly or without exception, appeal to God, and trust that God leads him. This type of post is destructive and dangerous. Here are some important points to consider when applying for submission in difficult marriages:
1. Marriage submission is not a strict declaration that prevents women from living their lives.
Submission is part of the partnership structure. It by no means prevents a woman from pursuing God-given gifts, talents, and the personality she manages and is responsible for.
2. Marriage applications are part of a balanced partnership that includes the desires and needs of both husbands and wives.
A healthy marriage with respect and love doesn't really have to worry about whether your wife is submitting. Couples make decisions based on both people's needs and desires.
3. Marriage application is a choice, not a requirement.
Some people rigorously interpret marriage submissions without exception. However, submission is an intentional decision and can be submitted or suspended depending on the circumstances. There are many other Bible principles that support having no boundaries for what is wrong.
4. The marriage application is not a trump card.
In dysfunctional marriages, husbands use obedience as a means of controlling their wives, refuse to address concerns, and lock them out by demanding obedience. It is not intended to be submitted. A man who loves his wife does not use her obedience to control her, mean humiliate, ignore, or silence. Women do not value marriage or themselves by receiving treatment.
Another marriage aid for Christians: marriage submissions must be applied with wisdom.
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