I Cannot Forget About Him - Her

Psychology of falling in love

Before knowing why you should not know why you still remember him, it is the psychology of falling in love, falling in love is a logic controlled by the chemicals released by you The brain, it's not a random process at all, you usually fall in love with someone who matches the hard-coded criteria in your mind, this criterion is based on a mix of characteristics, those The characteristics are divided into two parts. I like myself, so I look for similar people, things I don't like, and people with the opposite characteristics.

If someone finds that you are similar to you with different characteristics that you do not like but different in characteristics you do not like, if he is almost the same, then you fall in love with him May have cultural background and value.

Why can't you forget him?

If you still can't forget someone, read carefully because one of the following cases is likely the reason.

* If you find the best match above, according to the psychology of falling in love, the relationship ends for some reason, someone appears in your life, you are always in both comparison modes, the real problem If the old is a better match than the new, in this case, the new one will always lose the comparison, so you will still feel it would be better to stay with the old one.

* Another main cause is that when looking for others to fill the emotional gap that occurred after the first dissolution, the second person only plays the role of a painkiller, he is nice and elegant He may not be alone, but he is just giving you the emotional support you need.

* One very common reason is that when that person falls in love with someone who looks a little like an old person, he may look like him or speak the same way, what is the reason Oh, your subconscious just falls in love. He resembles an old man, so you may unconsciously provide the same emotional support that an old man offered Because I think. In that case, the comparison is done again and you can see that the old is still winning.

* Abnormal relationship termination is another cause, and abnormal relationship termination is to disconnect the connection between you and him, or travel to another location and then talk to you or resume negotiations Be aware that you are still attached to him just because you can't catch him.

Then what should I do?

If you have already committed to someone and there is no way to turn back, you can contact that person and tell him that it has ended, this is your potential Allow the consciousness to accept your subconscious then start the normal recovery process.

On the other hand, if you still have the hope that you can do your best to return to the old man and restore this relationship, this is a good idea because he might have really been the best match for you.

Finally, knowing that there is a best match does not mean that he is, it is only the best match you have found, not the best match that exists. There may still be better matches, but you never met him.